There is a particular kind of quiet that settles over a group of women on the first morning of a ride, before the engines turn over. It is not nerves, exactly. It is more like the held breath of people who have spent years being the only woman in the workshop, the only one in the riding club, the only helmet in the photo that belonged to a girl. Then somebody laughs, the bikes fire up one after another, and the breath lets go. That is the moment the Women Riders Only tour was built for, and it is the reason this particular trip through the mountains of northern Thailand has become one of the most quietly important rides Big Bike Tours runs.
This is a ten-day motorcycle tour through the north of Thailand, designed, hosted and led entirely by local female riders. It bills itself as the first ever women-only tour of its kind in Asia, and once you have ridden it the claim stops sounding like marketing and starts sounding like overdue. Here is what actually happens out there, who it is for, and why so many women finish it already plotting their return.
Why an all-women ride is not a gimmick
Let us deal with the obvious question first, because somebody always asks it. Why does it matter that everyone on the bikes is a woman? The honest answer is that for a lot of riders it does not matter at all until they experience the alternative, and then they understand. Women now make up around nineteen percent of motorcycle owners in the United States, nearly double the share from 2009, and the median female rider is younger than her male counterpart, according to reporting by RevZilla’s Common Tread. The sport is changing fast, but the rooms it happens in have not always caught up. A ride where the road captain, the mechanic and the rider beside you are all women removes a low background hum most riders did not know they were carrying.
Led by women who actually live here
The tour is not an all-female group herded around by a male guide, which would rather defeat the point. It is designed, hosted and led by local female riders who know these mountains the way you know your own street. The trip is joined by Samantha Dawkins, a traveller and adventurer who has spent years on two wheels, and by Zed Chiang, the editor of MotoGirl Thailand, an expert biker and a genuine nature lover who can name the bird that just crossed the road. Having women who live and ride in the north running the show changes the texture of every single day.
Ten days is the right amount of time
Short tours are fun, but they rush you. Ten days lets northern Thailand unfold at a human pace, with room for the long lunches and the unplanned detours that turn a holiday into a memory. By the third day your hands have loosened on the bars, by the sixth you have stopped checking the clock, and by the ninth you are dreading the airport. Consider Mariam, a forty-four-year-old midwife from Birmingham who booked the trip expecting to count down the days like a normal package holiday and instead found herself lying awake on night eight, sad it was nearly over. That arc only happens when a guided tour gives the country enough time to get under your skin.
Starting gentle in Chiang Mai
The ride begins in Chiang Mai, the spiritual home of motorcycle travel in Asia and a city that smells of coffee, temple incense and two-stroke smoke in roughly equal measure. The first day or two ease you in on roads that build confidence rather than fear, which matters because riders arrive with wildly different experience. Take Hana, a thirty-one-year-old graphic designer from Osaka who had only ever ridden a scooter to work. By the end of the opening stretch she was leaning into corners she would have braked for at home, coached by a road captain who had clearly taught a hundred Hanas before her.
The hidden roads most tourists never find
What sets this motorbike tour apart is its appetite for the small stuff, the almost hidden back roads that wind between villages where the only traffic is a water buffalo with somewhere to be. The all-female local team knows which unmarked turn leads to a viewpoint and which leads to a dead end, and that knowledge is worth more than any map app. Priya, a fifty-two-year-old accountant from Toronto, said the moment she fell for Thailand was on a nameless lane of perfect tarmac with rice terraces dropping away on both sides and not another soul in sight.
Pai, and the road that gets there
The route north toward Pai is famous, and infamous, for its curves. The road from Chiang Mai to Pai stacks up hundreds of bends in a relentless sequence that has humbled plenty of overconfident riders. On this trip you ride it with a support vehicle behind you and a guide setting a sane pace, so the curves become a thrill instead of a trial. Sofia, a thirty-eight-year-old nurse from Lisbon, admitted she had read horror stories about that road online and spent a week dreading it. She finished it grinning so hard her cheeks ached, then asked if they could turn around and do it again.
Mae Hong Son and the loop of legend
Northern Thailand’s signature ride is the Mae Hong Son Loop, a roughly six-hundred-kilometre mountain circuit that climbs and dives through some of the most forested, least visited country in the kingdom. The route is famous enough that the local chamber of commerce hands out a certificate to anyone who completes its catalogued 1,864 curves, as the comparison of Asia’s great loops on the Big Bike Tours blog explains in detail. Riding a chunk of that loop in good company, with the worry of navigation and breakdowns lifted clean off your shoulders, is the heart of what makes this trip sing.
Cool mornings on the roof of Thailand
The north reaches its high point, literally, at Doi Inthanon, the tallest mountain in the country at 2,565 metres, a peak locals call the Roof of Thailand (Wikipedia). Mornings up there can be genuinely cold, which catches first-timers off guard in a country they imagined as wall-to-wall tropical heat. Greta, a sixty-year-old retired teacher from Hamburg, packed for the beach and ended up borrowing every spare layer in the group on the summit, laughing that she had never expected to shiver in Thailand. The cool air, the mossy cloud forest and the silence up top are worth a little goosebumps.
The long-neck Karen village, handled with care
Some stops on this route ask for sensitivity as much as curiosity, and the visit to a long-neck Karen community is one of them. A good guide turns what could be an awkward bit of human zoo-gazing into a real, respectful exchange, and having local women lead that conversation makes all the difference. Amara, a forty-seven-year-old social worker from Melbourne, said she had nearly skipped the stop on principle and was glad she did not, because the way the team framed it left her with questions worth carrying home rather than cheap photos.
Tea, opium history and the hills of Doi Mae Salong
As the tour swings through the far north it climbs into Doi Mae Salong, a ridge town settled by former Chinese Nationalist soldiers and now famous for its tea terraces and its complicated past. The hills here sit in the broader Golden Triangle country, where Thailand, Laos and Myanmar shoulder up against each other, a region whose opium history is laid out plainly on Britannica. Linh, a thirty-five-year-old software engineer from Singapore, said the contrast of sipping fresh oolong on a misty balcony while learning what those same hills once produced was the kind of whiplash that good travel is made of.
The bikes, and not babysitting them
A ten-day ride is a real test of machinery, which is exactly why you do not want to gamble on a tired rental from a roadside shop. The tour runs a fleet of well-maintained big bikes suited to these mountains, and crucially a mechanic travels with the group, so a flat or a warning light becomes a non-event rather than a ruined afternoon. Yuki, a forty-year-old architect from Yokohama, said the strangest luxury of the whole trip was handing her bike over each evening and simply being a rider, not a mechanic, for ten days straight.
The gear question women actually ask
Anyone who has shopped for women’s riding kit knows the quiet frustration of gear designed as a shrunken, pinker version of the men’s line. On a women-led trip, the advice you get about fit, armour and hot-weather layering actually comes from people who have solved those problems on their own bodies. Fatima, a twenty-nine-year-old doctor from Dubai, spent one dinner getting more useful guidance on ventilated jackets and proper glove sizing than she had gathered in three years of riding at home, all because the person across the table had ridden these same roads in the same heat.
Eating your way through the north
Northern Thai food is its own reward, and a guided trip means someone always knows which roadside stall is worth stopping for and which tourist trap to ride past. The region’s signature dish, khao soi, a rich curry noodle soup, becomes a daily ritual you will be chasing for years after you fly home. Beatriz, a forty-three-year-old chef from São Paulo who cooks for a living and is therefore impossible to impress, conceded by day five that she had been quietly photographing every bowl so she could try to reverse-engineer it back in her own kitchen.
Evenings that turn strangers into a crew
Something happens around the midpoint of a good motorcycle tour when a roster of strangers quietly becomes a crew. Inside jokes form, riding formations tighten, and the evening conversations stretch later and later. On this trip the bond has an extra layer, because so many of these women have spent their riding lives slightly outnumbered, and finding a whole table of people who simply get it is its own kind of homecoming. Naomi, a thirty-six-year-old paramedic from Cape Town, said she arrived shy and left with a group chat that still pings most mornings.
Solo riders welcome, and rarely solo for long
A large share of women on this trip book alone, and that is by design rather than accident. Travelling solo as a woman carries a calculus that men rarely have to run, a reality the Big Bike Tours blog tackles head-on in its country-by-country reality check for solo female riders. A guided tour quietly removes most of that calculus, which is why so many women use it as their first big international ride. Eleni, a fifty-one-year-old lawyer from Athens recently divorced and itching to do something for herself, said the trip felt like the safest possible way to be brave.
You do not need to be an expert
There is a myth that a tour through famous mountain roads must be for hardened veterans only, and it puts off exactly the people who would love it most. The truth is that the early days build your skill, the guides read the group and set the pace accordingly, and the support vehicle means nobody gets left behind on a hard climb. Carmen, a thirty-three-year-old teacher from Seville who had passed her test only the year before, was certain she would be the weak link and discovered by midweek that she was cornering with riders who had decades on her.
When the experienced riders get their fix too
That said, this is no slow parade, and the veterans in the group are not short-changed. The northern roads serve up enough technical, properly engaging riding to satisfy women who have been at this for thirty years, including stretches that rank among the best tarmac in the region. Ingrid, a fifty-eight-year-old engineer from Oslo who has ridden on four continents, said she came mostly for the all-female experience and stayed surprised at how genuinely challenging and rewarding the actual riding turned out to be.
The cultural stops that sneak up on you
The north is stitched with temples, markets and quiet hilltop shrines, and a thoughtful guide treats these as more than photo breaks. A road captain who grew up here turns a pile of old stones into a story you actually remember, and the women leading this trip do it without the bored patter of a coach-tour script. Dolores, a sixty-two-year-old retiree from Manila, came for the bikes and admitted at the final dinner that a small forest temple she had never heard of, reached by a track she would never have found alone, had moved her more than anything on the itinerary.
Safety, without the lecture
Every road captain and guide on a Big Bike Tours trip carries certified first aid training, the group sizes stay small at around ten to twelve riders, and the whole operation is built so that help is always close. For a lot of women, that safety net is the difference between dreaming about a ride like this and actually booking it. Rachel, a forty-five-year-old pharmacist from Dublin, said the thing that finally tipped her into paying the deposit was reading that a mechanic and a trained guide travel with every group, which turned a scary leap into a sensible one.
What the all-inclusive price actually covers
Part of why a trip like this works is that the money side is settled before you ever throw a leg over the bike. The tour is fully inclusive, meaning the bike, the support vehicle, the hotels, most meals and the entire expert team are baked into one price with no nasty surprises at the end. Over ten days that clarity matters, because nobody wants to be doing currency maths at every fuel stop. Wanida, a thirty-nine-year-old entrepreneur from Bangkok who joined to see her own country differently, said the no-hidden-fees promise was what convinced her sceptical sister to come along.
The best season to ride the north
Timing makes or breaks a mountain trip, and the north has a clear sweet spot. The cool, dry months from roughly November to February bring crisp morning air, clear views and forgiving road conditions, while the hot season turns hazy and the rains arrive later in the year. Get the season right and the riding is close to perfect. Astrid, a forty-eight-year-old vet from Copenhagen, booked a January departure and spent her mornings rolling through golden mountain light she swore looked computer-generated, while quietly pitying friends who only travel in the heat.
How it compares to going it alone
Could a confident woman ride northern Thailand solo? Of course, and plenty do. But stretch that idea across ten days, hundreds of decisions, language barriers, bookings and the occasional breakdown, and the appeal of going guided gets obvious fast. The route is already optimised for the best roads, the logistics simply vanish, and a problem that would cost a solo rider a wasted day costs the group nothing. Valentina, a forty-year-old journalist from Buenos Aires who had ridden solo across two continents, booked this trip to test it and admitted that not planning a single thing let her actually see the country for once.
Why the women-only frame keeps mattering
It would be easy to assume that as women’s numbers in the sport climb, the need for trips like this fades. The opposite tends to be true. The more women ride, the more they want spaces where the experience is built around them from the ground up rather than retrofitted as an afterthought. This big biking tour is one of those spaces, and the riders who finish it often describe it less as a holiday and more as a recalibration of what they thought was possible for them on two wheels.
The riders this trip tends to attract
On a single departure you might find a retired couple’s worth of life experience packed into one solo traveller, a pair of sisters reconnecting after years apart, a young rider on her first big adventure and a veteran quietly clocking everyone’s cornering. The mix is part of the magic. Olabisi, a fifty-five-year-old businesswoman from Lagos, came alone fully expecting to keep to herself and went home as the unofficial organiser of a reunion ride for the following year, proof that the right guided tour bonds people fast.
A typical day in the saddle
People imagine a long tour as an endless blur of riding, but the days have a lovely shape. Mornings open slow with strong coffee and a casual briefing on the route, the fuel stops and the lunch plan, then you ride the cool, quiet hours, break for a long local lunch as the heat builds, and roll into the next town with afternoon to spare for a wander, a swim or a nap. Heidi, a thirty-four-year-old physiotherapist from Zurich, said the rhythm surprised her most, leaving real room to absorb the country rather than just survive the schedule.
The feeling at the finish line
There is a specific look women get on the final day of this ride, part exhaustion, part triumph, part grief that it is ending. They started ten days earlier as individuals who happened to ride and finish as part of something, having crossed the Roof of Thailand, threaded the loops of the north and shared a thousand kilometres of road with people who simply understood. That shift, from a rider who tags along to a rider who belongs, is the real product here, and you cannot buy it in a weekend.
Ready to ride the north with your people?
If ten days through the mountains of northern Thailand, led entirely by local women who live and breathe these roads, with a mechanic in support and a small group of like-minded riders, sounds like the trip you have been waiting for, the Women Riders Only tour is ready when you are. The cool-season departures fill up early, so take a proper look at the Women Riders Only tour on the Big Bike Tours website, or message the team with your dates and riding experience and let them help you lock it in. The mountains are out there. Go and claim your place among them.


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